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Efua Mbiah's avatar

This reminds me of a chapter in 'The Psychology of Money' where one of the principles is that wealth is what is what you don't see, like savings accounts and investment portfolios. Career status vs wealth is definitely something for me to think deeply about as a twenty-something.

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This resonated with me deeply. I left the fashion industry (as a designer) and moved into corporate consulting, only recently have I realised that one of my main drivers was that I wanted to be "understood" by others. The status, prestige & stability of a corporate career are representative of a "tried and tested", understandable and acceptable career route- one that keeps employees contained in safety. Whereas the possibilities (both financial and creative) with entrepreneurship (freelance, content creation...) are endless in comparison, and yet somehow harder to explain at a dinner party.

What I've come to realise is that the discomfort wasn't really about the career itself, it was about tolerating the gap between where I was/what I was building and what others could immediately recognise as valuable. The wealth game asks you to be okay with that gap, possibly for years. The status game offers a shortcut to external validation that feels like progress but often isn't. Now that I'm building something of my own again, I'm learning to sit with that discomfort rather than run from it, and that feels like the real shift.

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